Every
time someone comes to me I assess their needs and create a therapeutic
programme to solve whatever the problem is that has brought them to me. To do
that use a range of powerful tools:
Hypnotherapy
Hypnosis
is a completely natural state of mind, comparable to daydreaming. It is induced
by focusing the mind on a single idea or concept.
Contrary
to what we’re led to believe by stage hypnotists, generally you do not feel
hypnotised and you certainly will not lose awareness or control, in fact quite
often people report a feeling of heightened awareness and a feeling of deep
calm and relaxation.
Using
hypnosis combined alongside behavioural and cognitive therapies helps the
individual gain fresh attitudes and new ways of thinking about things. This is
achieved by bypassing the conscious mind which can reject new ideas even if
they are ideas that will help! The subconscious mind - which we can reach using
hypnotherapy - will accept new ideas more readily particularly if they are
beneficial. In effect you have the opportunity to reassess any faulty
‘programming’ that you may have received in the past and create a new more
positive approach.
By
changing negative thought patterns, behaviour and feelings at a subconscious
level you can regain the control that has been lost through our reaction to
life’s difficulties.
CBT (Cognitive
Behavioural Therapy)
CBT
works with
our 'cognitive processes', our thoughts which include our ideas, mental images,
beliefs and attitudes. Cognitive therapy is based on the principle that certain
ways of thinking can trigger, or 'fuel', our belief systems, particularly
negative automatic thoughts.
Cognitive
work can help identify any harmful, unhelpful, and 'false' ideas or thoughts
that can convince you that you can’t achieve your goals. The aim is then to
change your ways of thinking to avoid these ideas thereby helping your thought
patterns to be more realistic and positive and help change any behaviours that
are harmful or not helpful.
SFBT
Solution-Focused
Brief Therapy (SFBT) is a short-term therapy that works
by focussing on solutions
rather than on problems. Instead of analysing your past and dwelling on what
went wrong, SFBT will help you look towards the future, find direction and move
forward.
In
SFBT
the desired outcome is to help you identify what positive changes you can make
in your life that will help you realise your goals with confidence. SFBT
aims to help you change – by enabling you to recognise and engage with the
process that makes change happen, rather than dwelling on potential problems,
when they’re going to happen and what causes them.
During
SFBT you will learn to draw on your existing strengths and resources, as a way
of helping you action any necessary changes in your life. The most important
first step in SFBT is to define how you want things to be different and to
understand what you need to do to make change happen. By clearly defining your
goals and visualising your life once you achieve those goals, you create a
positive and viable outcome to focus on, and a stronger motivation to move
towards a life with those changes made.
During
SFBT you will learn to draw on your existing strengths and resources, as a way
of helping you action any necessary changes in your life.
SFBT
has
been shown to be particularly effective for those who do not wish to relive
past events or scenarios that they feel have caused their current suffering.
Mindfulness
Mindfulness is developed by paying attention,
on purpose, in
a non-judgemental way, to what is going on in your body, your mind and in the
world around you. In the Buddhist tradition this is known as moment-to-moment
awareness – living in the present – rather than focussing on the past or the
future.
“The present is the only time that any
of us have to be
alive – to know anything – to perceive – to learn – to act – to change – to
heal” Jon Kabat-Zinn, Full Catastrophe Living.
Staying in touch with the present in this way,
living from
one moment to the next involves a shift in perspective and as such often leads
to people feeling they have more control, choices, strength and confidence,
more wisdom… more possibilities.
Being mindful will guide you towards more self-awareness
and
an ability to appreciate and get the most out of life.
Overall learning the process of Mindfulness
may not make
life’s difficulties disappear but it enables the practitioner to approach these
difficulties with more strength, wisdom and passion for life.
NLP
(Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is a set of insights and practical skills with
which you can actively use your mind and your emotions and your body to take
control of your life and be more effective. It is a system that uses a huge
range of mental techniques that can enable you to improve how you think, behave
and feel. It can teach you skills and attitudes to help you do what you would
like to be able to do, assist you to think more clearly, communicate more
effectively and manage your thoughts, moods and behaviours.
The benefits of the support in project planning/goal
setting
are to ensure you have a structured programme with milestones to navigate your
journey by and to enable you to physically see you progress, which will in turn
generate enthusiasm and motivation to see you through to the next milestone